ALSphere Foundation
Neither should a ship rely on one small anchor nor should life rest on a single hope – Epictetus
As a teacher, I often witness the unique challenges students face, especially when it comes to their focus and decisiveness in pursuing their goals. Many struggle with distractions, finding it difficult to channel their energy effectively. On the other hand, some students exhibit extraordinary determination, becoming so fixated on a single goal that it consumes their entire sense of self-worth. For these students, not achieving their cherished aim can feel like an insurmountable failure, leading to despair and, tragically, sometimes even life-altering decisions.
This is a stark reminder of the importance of balance. It is crucial to teach students and children that life is a journey filled with twists and turns. Success isn’t defined by one goal alone, but by the ability to adapt, learn, and grow through every experience. Dreams are vital, but so is resilience—the ability to reframe setbacks as opportunities to explore new paths.
They need to learn that relying entirely on one thing—whether it’s an anchor for a ship or a single hope in life—is risky and unwise. A ship is vulnerable if it depends solely on one anchor. If that anchor fails, the ship could drift uncontrollably. The analogy highlights the importance of having backups or alternatives to ensure safety and stability.
Human life is marked by unpredictability from the very moment of its inception in the mother’s womb. Studies reveal that out of millions of sperm, only one successfully fertilises an egg, resulting in the conception of a human embryo. This remarkable journey is a testament to the intricate and extraordinary nature of life’s beginnings and its success rate.
This incredible odd-defying process underscores the uniqueness and resilience inherent in every human being. From the very start, life is a miracle shaped by determination and chance, a blend of biology and destiny. Yet, unpredictability doesn’t end there; it continues as we navigate the complexities of existence. Just as a single sperm overcomes countless obstacles to fulfil its purpose, we, too, must embrace life’s uncertainties and challenges with courage and perseverance.
Therefore, from a young age, we are taught the wisdom of not “putting all our eggs in one basket.” This principle extends beyond its literal meaning, encouraging us to embrace diversity in our goals, dreams, and efforts. Life’s unpredictability demands that we remain flexible, open to new opportunities, and resilient in the face of setbacks. By cultivating multiple interests and aspirations, we build a safety net that shields us from the disappointment of unfulfilled expectations. This approach not only reduces the pressure to succeed in one specific area but also allows us to discover hidden strengths and alternative paths to fulfilment.
The same is true for relationships as well. Falling in love and making lifelong commitments reflect the beauty of human empathy and sensitivity. However, ending a life due to the breakdown of these affiliations is not a solution. Relationships, like life itself, are complex and can face challenges or changes. It’s essential to remember that personal worth is not solely defined by any single connection. Emotional setbacks, though painful, are opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Instead of giving up, one must seek support, heal, and rediscover joy in life’s other dimensions, trusting that new beginnings are always possible.
It is, therefore, crucial to remember to rely on multiple anchors—be it dreams, relationships, or strategies—to navigate life’s uncertainties. Diversifying our sources of hope and support fosters resilience, allowing us to adapt and thrive amidst challenges. By embracing flexibility and balance, we ensure that setbacks in one area don’t define us, empowering us to move forward with confidence and discover new paths to fulfilment and happiness.
Dr. Sonika Sethi
