When did I lose my voice?
Was it when I entered the wedlock?
Sh! Girls must speak in a subdued tone
Let alone lend opinion in the male zone
When did I lose my voice?
Was it when my better half took to sermonize?
Avoid argument, pay due respect to elders
Even if they err, even if they blabber
Where did my voice disappear?
Suppressed under regressive veiled remarks?
That my real job is home, hearth, birthing
That my career is a mere time pass
Where is that vociferous articulate maiden?
Debating, declaiming on women’s rights with conviction
Unsparingly questioning her parents for favoritism
Why taboos for daughters, while sons have all the fun?
In this milieu of lost vocals, perhaps I’m not alone
This perhaps is a grim reality in many homes
For peace in matrimony, they sadly choose to lose their voices
‘Coz patriarchy and male dominance are still stark vices!
Manpreet Chadha
This is so very true. This has made me think over and over again. I fall into this category definitely. ‘For peace in matrimony’ and that’s what society teaches us. But at some point we will be tired of this.